I have had meeting with a counselor yesterday. It appears that I will be starting counseling to move myself from victim to survivor. Also, learning how to control and possibly get rid of my panic attacks.
Telling your son not to “be such a girl” lets his sister who overhears the conversation know that being a girl is not a good thing and she should be sorry and ashamed of herself.
It also reminds your son that being a boy is better than being a girl and therefore he is better than any girl he will ever meet.